Your safety matters to us. BeMy is built so you can connect with people on your terms, but no platform can replace good judgement and common-sense precautions. Please read and share these tips.
1. Meeting someone in person
- Meet in public. Pick a busy spot for a first meeting — a café, a bar, a park. Avoid private homes for the first couple of dates.
- Tell someone. Let a friend or family member know where you're going, who you're meeting, and when you expect to be home. Share your live location if your phone supports it.
- Own transport. Arrange your own way there and back. Don't rely on someone you just met for a ride home.
- Trust your instincts. If something feels off, leave. You don't owe anyone your time.
- Limit alcohol and substances. Stay clear-headed, especially on a first meeting.
2. Protecting your personal information
- Don't share your home address, workplace, financial details, passwords, or copies of ID with anyone you've just met online.
- Be cautious about people who quickly move conversation off BeMy or ask for money, gift cards, or crypto — these are classic romance-scam red flags.
- Use unique photos on BeMy. A reverse image search on your own photos can help you spot impersonation.
3. Consent
Consent is continuous, enthusiastic, and can be withdrawn at any time — for messages, photos, and meetups alike. Don't send explicit content that hasn't been asked for, and don't pressure anyone else to do so.
4. Blocking, reporting, and privacy controls
- Every profile on BeMy has options to block or report. Use them — blocked users can't message you or see your profile.
- Use your Boundaries and Profile visibility settings to control who can contact you and what they see.
- Screenshots: assume any message or photo could be saved. Think twice before you send.
5. Emergency contacts
If you're ever in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services first:
- United States / Canada: 911
- United Kingdom: 999
- European Union: 112
- Australia: 000
For non-emergency abuse reports on BeMy, contact us at support@bemy.fun. For emotional support, national hotlines such as Samaritans are available 24/7.
6. Reporting abuse
Harassment, impersonation, minors on the platform, sexual coercion, and any threat of violence should be reported immediately. Email support@bemy.fun with as much detail as you can (profile URL, screenshots, message dates). We review reports 7 days a week and will act quickly.